Imagine someone burning down your home and saying, ‘oh, it’s just a house.’ Show your child empathy, offer a heartfelt apology, and help heal their pain with genuine kindness.
I also published this story on Medium for awareness purposes.
Gaming and Parenting
Reading about a parent deleting their 12-year-old child’s Minecraft world — a cherished creation they had poured their heart into for five long years — absolutely gutted me. I was overwhelmed with emotion, and I felt compelled to express my feelings in a constructive way, hoping to reach parents who may unintentionally inflict such heartache on their children.
Imagine the heartbreak of that child, reduced to tears, pleading for understanding, while their parent brushed it off as “just a game.” This goes beyond disappointment. I’m angry, I’m hurt for that child, and I’m outraged that anyone could be so dismissive of something that clearly meant so much.
Let’s get something straight folks especially those ignorant parents: Minecraft isn’t “just a game.” For many, it’s a sanctuary, a space to build, create, and escape. Think about what that world represented for that child.
Five years of constructing, exploring, and achieving — it wasn’t just “play.” It was a labor of love, a source of pride. It was, in many ways, a safe space that they crafted with patience and care.
When you delete a child’s Minecraft world, you aren’t just “taking away screen time.” You’re tearing down a personal creation they invested years into, reducing hours upon hours of joy, passion, and effort to nothing.
Imagine if someone came into your life and, without a thought, destroyed something you worked on for years. That’s how deeply this act cuts.
To parents who think Minecraft is just blocks on a screen, I say this: look deeper. What you see as “just a game” is an emotional investment, a cherished space, and often a source of confidence.
Deleting it is like bulldozing a child’s dream home. It’s a way they’ve found to express themselves, build something uniquely theirs, and feel a sense of ownership and pride.
Deleting that world might have been easy for the parent. But for the child, it’s a betrayal. It shows a disregard for the very real emotional connections and achievements they’ve built within this digital realm.
Minecraft can be as meaningful as any real-world accomplishment — it’s the hours of effort, the creativity, and the joy that makes it real. To deny that is to deny the child’s passions, dreams, and sense of identity.
So, to every parent out there: before you decide that something “doesn’t matter,” ask yourself if you truly understand what it means to your child.
If your child’s Minecraft world could last for five years, can’t you at least give it five minutes of respect and thought?
Please, don’t underestimate the value of what they create, especially in a world where self-expression and connection can be rare.
Honor what your child loves. Recognize that when they create in Minecraft, they’re building more than just a game. They’re building a part of themselves.
If you want to learn what Mindcraft really means to child or in my case a teenager when experiencing deep grief and loneliness, read this story and learn. I am not the only one who feels this way.
Finding Comfort in Blocks: How Minecraft Eased My First Time Loneliness and Intense Grief at 17
The significance of forging virtual connections in Minecraft gaming during periods of solitude and times of grief.medium.com
Why did I write this story?
Because a parent on Quora shared that they not only deleted their 12-year-old son’s Minecraft world — a world he had built over five years — but they also asked how to explain to him that it was ‘just a game.’ That question, to me, showed a profound misunderstanding of what Minecraft can mean to a young person.
No question on Quora has ever made me feel as emotional, upset, angry, frustrated, or disappointed as this one. While my first reaction was to respond harshly, I recognize that many parents act out of a lack of understanding, not malice. Parents like this don’t need punishment. I don’t blame them but they need education to truly see the value their children find in these digital worlds.
Here’s Why I Like Minecraft So Much
It is not just for kids; adults can play and enjoy it, too. Besides, it has therapeutic value.medium.com
I answered many Quora questions and my wise friend Dr Mike Broadly, DHSc cited one of my humorous answer to another parent. You can read my reply in the attached story. Parent’s can gain insights from Dr Broadly’s remarkable story loved by many readers.
Her Husband Found Their Daughter’s PοrnHub Account, What Should She Say to Her 22-Year-Old Daughter
As a parent and grandparent, here is my answer with two additional perspectives from my good Aussie friendsmedium.com
Thanks for reading my emotional story. I’d love to get your comments if you have experience or thoughts about this this issue which is beyond gaming.
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Finding Comfort in Blocks: How Minecraft Eased My First Time Loneliness and Intense Grief at 17
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